Wednesday, May 30, 2018

temptation


 in our culture, temptation means sex.

at least in the church i grew up in.

teenagers were tempted to have sex before marriage.

men were tempted to have sex with someone other than their wife.

there were other temptations.

but sex was the big one.







making temptation mostly about sex makes it easy. 

the pharisees could easily say, "i don't do that. i refrain. i'm making the sacrifice of not giving in to what i'd really like to do."


the lesson about temptation in the bible from jesus was quite different.


jesus was tempted with physical relief for his hunger. the temptation was presented as compassion for his need.

"turn these stones into bread"

stones, not stone.

more than he needed for his own hunger.

in our society, we are tempted with every commercial to buy more than we need. we are tempted to buy that which we don't need. we are tempted for more, more, more.

money could be made encouraging people to buy for others, to use our extra so that others have enough.

few of us see this desire for ourselves and not others as the temptation of the devil.
jesus did.

when jesus answered with scripture, satan answered with the same.

"He will command the angels concerning you,
and they will lift up their hands,
lest you strike your foot against a stone."
Matthew 4:6

how often are christians tempted to use scripture to divide the world into "us" and "them".

we are the children of god. our sin is not as bad as the sin of others. people of a certain sin cannot serve in our churches, but other sins can be overlooked.

we are to be protected. we are not to be punished on earth for jealousy or gluttony. those are personal. other sins threaten the fabric of our nation. for those people to suffer is acceptable to us.

we judge certain people for their sin but allow others to embrace their sin because it provides protection for us that we crave.


a protection that is often about more than enough money to provide for both our needs and our wants.





this goes against one of the greatest themes of jesus's teachings.

when a man came to jesus for healing on the sabbath, the pharisees were ready to condemn him if he broke the law by healing him.

the law, for them, was greater than compassion. they could avoid acting in love by a strict interpretation of the law.

jesus says compassion is the purpose of the law.







 the temptation today is the same. 
law trumps compassion.

finally, jesus was tempted with ultimate power, the power to rule over the world. think of how much good could be done....

but at a cost of bowing down to the way of lucifer.







the angel of light.






the one who left heaven because he opposed the compassion that would allow humans, not only entrance to the kingdom of heaven, but prominence over angels.
 jesus said, "i am the way, the truth and the life."

the way of jesus has always been to love god, to love our neighbor as ourself. 

My children, our love should not be in just words and talk; it must be true love, that shows itself in action
John 3:18


the greatest temptation is not sex; it's not the sins of the flesh, but the sins of the spirit that are the most tempting for all of us.

it is the sin of arrogance and pride.

it is the sin of thinking ourselves as better.

the temptation is to say we love god without the second commandment which is the action of the first.

the temptation is great.

the resisting an every day event.

Sunday, May 27, 2018

ask your questions, tell your stories

the topic was nicodemus and being born again. the metaphor was the butterfly.

while most of the children were looking around or showing mild interest, one little girl was paying attention... so much so that she not only answered the questions, but elaborated.

not only did she elaborate, she stood up and acted out the transformation.

when she returned to her seat, she had the audacity to continue to listen. when the preacher asked if anyone had ever been stuck, she responded with a loud, "no".

her mother, of course, shushed her. (the mother sat cringing in her seat during the children's sermon as i often had myself... mine were prone to be listening as well) the woman next to her rifled through her purse to find the child a pen to draw on the bulletin as she was supposed to.

i hope this little girl has some good teachers along the way. i hope someone will welcome her curiosity and wonder.

what DID jesus mean to be born again?

i think it may be that we return to the state of this child.

keep asking your questions, little one.

keep telling your stories.

Saturday, May 26, 2018

god grant me....



 the prayer for alcoholics anonymous speaks to us all.



god grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, 

the courage to change what i can,

and the wisdom to know the difference



each of these are so hard, but the last perhaps the hardest.

what is good and what is evil? what is right and what is wrong? this is the question of the ages.


1 kings 3:9 says:

give me a heart that listens that i may judge your people and tell the difference between good and evil.

solomon, the leader known for his great wisdom, realized that he must listen; because the difference between good and evil, right and wrong is not simple.

that this is the prayer for those struggling with addiction is especially appropriate.

drinking does not dull the pain, it distorts it. drugs do not reveal truths. a listening heart must be fully awake to hear that still small voice, whether you believe it is the voice of god or the voice of your true self.

it is called the serenity prayer for the first of the prayer which tells us to let go.

it doesn't matter how much we desire a thing if we know it is impossible. and it's not true that all things are possible.

i will never dunk a basketball.

i will never nurse another baby.

i will never hold my daddy's hand again.

all things are not possible. there are intense desires that we have that we must let go.

for the addict, that may mean a family forever lost. it may mean health that has been destroyed.

it doesn't matter what it is.

it matters that we have to let it go.

grant me the courage to change what i can.


courage is not a lack of fear. courage is doing what you fear.

fear that you can't do something, but you do it anyway.

fear that it may hurt, but you do it anyway.

fear of change, but you do it anyway.


jesus went into the wilderness to pray, to listen.

the wilderness of our lives is both where we encounter our pain and where we find the strength we need.

we all travel in wildernesses.

our choice is prayer. our choice is to listen.



Sunday, May 20, 2018

a coward dies a thousand deaths

i feel like job.










i'm living in anticipation of the next bad thing.














i worry

i worry about my children.

i worry about the future.

i worry about the past.

but of all the worrying i've ever done, i've seldom, if ever, worried about the thing that happens.

Matthew 6:27
Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his lifespan?


i cannot control my life.

the way of the world is to bring good and bad, gain and loss.

worrying will not change that.

but it will affect my life

and not for the better.

i cannot change the circumstances.

i can only change me.

Thursday, May 10, 2018

pay it forward

lord, let me know my end and the number of my days 
so that i may know how short my life is. 
psalms 39:5




precious few of us will be remembered a hundred years after we are gone.


















even fewer after a thousand.








each life that has preceded ours is precious. 

each life has held great meaning to family and friends, for hunter-gatherers as well as for service workers and mechanics and presidents.

our life is a microscopic bit on the continuum of human existence.







What then do we leave, these millions and millions of souls who have lived and died on this earth?


my brother-in-law was an outstanding visual artist, but his art will not live on, even into the next century. his art was personal. there is a number to its life.

even the greatest art we know has the shortest of lives in the passing of time.

so what is our life?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvyHuse6buY

525,600 minutes.

it is how we live it. it is who we are, what we say, what we do for others.

it is how we pay it forward.

if we are to choose good over bad, we must overwhelm the bad with good.

https://www.researchgate.net/publication/46608952_Bad_Is_Stronger_than_Good

bad takes more thinking and stays with us longer.

giving good must be a daily choice.

love makes that choice.


love is greater than art.










love passes from generation to generation.

the love i give to my children is part of love my parents gave to me.




the love my children pass to others is the love i gave to them.

what is it that will live after dale's life?

love.

love passed on from generation to generation.

it is all any of us leave.

Monday, May 7, 2018

someone else

that headline in the paper is always someone else’s sorrow.

those flashing lights on the television screen tells someone else’s story.

those knocks on the door that come as you’re drifting off to sleep are from the neighbor. “it must be james and julia,” you tell your husband. and you wonder what they need.

you never expect the uniformed man at the door. you know what it means.

you can’t say your loved one was killed. that implies an accident. the word is murder and it is the ultimate violence.

you read the paper, watch the news, and go on with your life.

unless the news is yours.

what do you do when you find that you are someone else?